Persuade or perish, so they say.
Yes, I do advise not getting gouged by a bull in a china shop that does not know it's dead with the tranquilisers in, or read/listen to the room. Yet all those preconditions are not known.
Bull needs to be left in the china shop or be gored by its horn, so no horned dilemma. Leave the stadium of horned dilemmas.
While making more sense in entertainment, less so within the politics, academia and specialised fields.
Unpaid labor, social clout and bandwagon. Such is a matter that there could be a grift or a spammer behind the scenes of meaningful connection.
I'm getting old.